Posts Tagged ‘the trust workshop’

Expectations and threats

Some of the most interesting aspects about needs being met or unmet are the elements of perception and expectation. If we had expected that our need would be met in a moment and then we perceived that it was not, there will be a physiological response that we may have experienced previously in the face…

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Strategy and tactic for triggers

Questions from The Trust Workshop: What strategies help you build a lot of energy, when you feel empty but really need to be present very soon? First I’d like to distinguish between strategy and tactic. A strategy describes where we are trying to go and how we’re going to get there, while a tactic is…

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Peeling back layers by listening

Healing is facilitated to deeper layers when level 5 listening occurs. The level of listening that is infused with focus and care. Where we perceive beyond the words we’re hearing and fully commit to care for the human having the experience we’re witnessing. One of the mechanisms of the healing is that this level of…

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Either-or… both

I hear a common thread among friends and colleagues related to wanting a focused connection with family or peers instead of explaining choices related to diet. Reasons mentioned have been that the people we care about won’t understand, it will take to much energy, and it will distract from the quality of connection. I deal with this…

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Q&A from The Trust Workshop – Dishonesty

The following was inspired by a question I received within The Trust Workshop regarding dishonesty: The question, paraphrased: “When someone is dishonest, how do I know their intention without them telling me? And if their intention doesn’t serve my needs, do I just the let it go even if I feel hurt that someone lied…

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