Lose to win

Those who fail the most win.

There are a few caveats:

• You must learn from each failure.
• You must not fail the same way repeatedly.
• You must not fail in a way that kills you (obviously), bankrupts you, or knocks you out of whatever game you are playing.

If you mind the caveats, you fail, you learn, you fail differenlty, you learn more, and over time you accumulate the wisdom required to win in life.